{ My "THING" against men.

I'm naturally a VERY sociable person (almost too social, lol) so I tend to meet a lot of people, many of which are men, of course. Men always ask me, "why do you hate men so much", and I don't hate them. just express my frustrations with them often (even though I AM a lowkey feminist lol).

I've met men that suggest a three-some to me and a friend within no time, guys at my job that get my name and search my online databases, men that stalk me in real life, men YEARS older than me that randomly show up at my house YEARS later trying to initiate sex, guys that insist on attempt(ed) touching me inappropriately (although I've never been raped or molested, thank god!), guys that try to take advantage of females when they're drunk, guys that force it all a little too much on all aspects, etc ... I've seen it all, so in general men are kinda creepy to me. Overall it's just HARD for me to be fully comfortable around men.

I'm TOTALLY convinced that these past experiences and  not growing up with a father DEFINITELY contributed to this. I think the absence of a REAL man or a father figure is the root to why I'm not so comfortable around men. I never even knew what a REAL man was like, I just had to find out on my own and I'm still searching lol. My dad wasn't even that great of a person anyways. WHATEVER!

This is just an explanation of why I'm so cautious with men and why I don't get close unless I feel as aware as possible of their intentions. Therefore, my radars always on and my wall is always up. Not to mention, my lack of trust in anyone DEFINITELY plays it's role ...

I was trying to keep this post on a somewhat serious level and it still is ... But I just HAD to post this pic of R Kelly. LMAO! - YOU GET IT ?! :D Buah haaa haaaa! :\